Does this sound familiar?
Many international couples experience exactly this.
It is not a weakness. It is often the result of two different worlds meeting — each with its own expectations, language and ways of being close.
We only talk about logistics anymore.
Kids, schedules, daily life. There seems to be no room left for real conversation.
Our differences used to be exciting.
Today, those very differences lead to misunderstandings more and more often.
Sometimes we feel alone.
Our families live far away. There is little day-to-day support.
We love each other — and understand each other less and less.
Not from a lack of love. But because two worlds sometimes speak different languages.
You don't have to walk this path alone.
A free introductory call gives you space to talk through your situation calmly and find out whether mediation is the right path for you.
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Why do these conflicts arise?
Perhaps it isn't a lack of love.
Different cultures bring different expectations, patterns of communication and experiences. The same event can therefore be experienced in completely different ways by each partner.
It doesn't mean your relationship has failed. It simply means you have learned to see the same world in different ways.
Learn moreWhat couples say
What couples say about working together
“Her empathetic and clear manner helped us enormously. With a lot of heart and professionalism, she creates a space where you feel understood — even when things get emotionally difficult.”
– Christian Holzschuh, German, married to Vanessa from the Philippines · Marriage seminar
“She was a truly great help during a time of upheaval and stress. I felt understood and taken seriously and could open up completely at any time. Absolutely recommended!”
– Kezia Liesenfeld, English, married to Fabian from Germany · Couples counselling & coaching
About me
Because I know two worlds myself.
I know the challenges of international relationships not only from my professional work. For more than twenty years, I have lived in an intercultural marriage myself.
For many years I worked in international environments and saw again and again how conflicts went unspoken. These experiences moved me to become a mediator.
Today I support international couples in finding their way back into conversation with each other.
What to expect
How couples experience working together
No judgement, no prescribed path. Just space — for both of you.
Both perspectives get space.
You may say what moves you — without being judged.
Misunderstandings become clear.
Many conflicts arise not from lost love, but from different experiences.
Develop solutions together.
Not winning against each other, but finding a path with each other.
Create a new connection.
So that conversation becomes possible again.
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