Hesterberg Relationship Mediation

Process

How working together unfolds.

No judgement, no prescribed path. Just a clear, protected space — step by step, at your own pace.

1

Free introductory call

In 30 minutes we get to know each other. You describe your situation, I explain how I work. Entirely without obligation — afterwards you decide calmly whether it feels right for you.

2

A starting point with Prepare/Enrich

At the beginning — if you wish — we use the scientifically grounded Prepare/Enrich assessment. It makes the strengths of your relationship visible and shows what you would like to work on.

3

Sessions together

Both perspectives get space — without judgement, without interruption. We make misunderstandings understandable and develop solutions together. Not against each other, but with each other.

4

A new connection

Step by step, conversation becomes possible again. You decide for yourselves at any time when you have found enough orientation — there is no fixed minimum number of sessions.

A woman completing the Prepare/Enrich assessment

Scientifically grounded

Prepare/Enrich

Both partners first complete the assessment independently online. I then review the results together with you — as orientation for the process ahead.

A starting point for your relationship
Recognise strengths and areas to grow
Orientation for the mediation process
Together, not against one another

Not a test. Just insights that help you move forward together.

A man completing the Prepare/Enrich assessment

Good to know

The practical details at a glance

Where

Online across Europe or in person in Mettmann, near Düsseldorf.

Duration

Sessions of 60 minutes. Some couples need a few, others several months.

Cost

€120 per hour. The first call (30 min) is free of charge.

Language

German, English or bilingual — whichever feels most natural to you.

The first step

It starts with a conversation.

Book a free, no-obligation introductory call — the rest unfolds step by step.